I never cease to be amazed at the lack of social skills among some people. Today I would like to focus on some social etiquette when asking a girl out.
Rule #1: Do NOT call late in the afternoon/early evening to ask her out for that night unless you are her boyfriend. Put some thought into it and give her some time to plan!
Rule #2: When she tells you NO, which she probably will, do NOT ask her for her roommates' phone numbers or some other single girl's phone number.
Rule #3: If you don't know her, offer to take her on a double date. You could even let her find a girl to go to make her more comfortable.
Rule #4: Do NOT imply that you have been recommended by a friend of her's, when in fact her friend doesn't know you from Adam.
Rule #5: Ask her out, don't tell her you are calling to take her out tonight. (See Rule #1.)
These are just a few rules I discovered I had been taking for granted in the last 24 hours or so. I never thought they had to be written down, but apparently they do. Please feel free to leave any rules you have discovered need to be etched in stone. Also, please feel free to subtly pass these on to any single males you may know. One more rule for those of you trying to set up single people: Do NOT give a guy the number of a girl you do not know. If you do give a guy a girl's number, make sure it is okay with her first. At least give her some warning! It can be a scary dating scene for the single girl these days!